As human beings we have a yearning to mark the key moments…

There are times when only a ceremony seems to fit the bill – times when we have much to celebrate, much to give thanks for and much to hope for… times when we want to honour the past and make commitments to the future.

I’ll help you do this in a way that feels totally ‘you’.

Alex Hilder - Celebrant smiling on a green sofa holding her ceremony book in the outdoor wedding ceremony space at Oak Tree Barn, Tonbridge, Kent

With thanks for the gorgeous photo to www.emilybrown.photography


For anyone looking for a heart-centred, personal and poignant ceremony, Alex is the person you are looking for to guide and support you throughout the journey.


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Make your wedding a truly unique and personalised experience!



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Naming Ceremonies

Share your joy at a new life created and honour a new stage in your own lives


Alex Hilder Celebrant standing in front of a floral arch delivering a ceremony at Salomon's Estate, Tunbridge Wells

Vow Renewals

Celebrate your unique love story in your own unique way


If the idea of creating a bespoke ceremony with me has given you a little tingle of excitement, filled your head with ideas or even lots of questions,

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